The gospel should not just be leaving you internally focused. It should also be leaving you upwardly focused onwardly focused and therefore outwardly focused. (2 Corinthians 5:11 -6:2; Acts 9:1-6)
3 things that we need to be convinced of for the Gospel to propel us outward:
A.) The fear of God
The fear of God leaves us looking upwards and therefore outwards.
B.) The love of God
The love of God leaves us looking inward and therefore outwards.
C.) The call of God
The call of God leaves us looking onwards and therefore outwards.
The gospel empowers us to forgive and to fight fairly
1.) Cancel the debt
2.) Stress the things you share in common
3.) Though you don ‘t like conflict don ‘t avoid it